Kelly High School 1965
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Table of Contents
- Introduction
- A Short History of the Name
- Meet the 1965 Graduates (Includes Senior Class Picture and Caps and Gowns
- Valedictorian and Salutatorian
- Class Officers
- Class Personalities
- Class Reunions (Includes 50 Years, All School (in 2013), 10 Years (Grads only), and 10 year Grads and Spouses or Guests)
- Articles by Glen (1) Bertrand Students Invade Kelly High School, (2) Some Reflections on 1965, and (3) Remembering Ronnie and Johnny
- Individual Senior Photos.
- The ’66-’70 Grads & and the ’65 Faculty
- The Music Programs
- Sports Programs
- The Organizations, Clubs, and Royalty
Introduction
This page is dedicated to all Kelly High School (KHS) alumni. I specifically, however, want to honor my fellow 65 graduates and undergraduates that attended KHS with me in 1965. Yes, I may have only attended KHS for one year, but what a year it was. During that one year, I made many life-long friends from grades 7-12 and was able to create a wealth of memories that have stuck with me for more than 55 years. That school year of 1964-65 was the best year of my young life. Classmates and other alumni, this page is for you!
Our heavenly father, I offer a prayer in memory of all classmates and friends who have left us too soon. Fill that emptiness in their loved ones’ hearts as only you can. Help us keep their memories alive. Amen.
I am aware of a former classmate of mine at Diehlstadt Grade School, who attended Kelly High School through the 10th grade, that passed on in 2020. Sue was in attendance at our fiftieth reunion in 2015. Rest in Peace, Sue Walls.
I really enjoy reminiscing. As such, I will share some of my memories with you on this page.
Author’s Note: There would be no Kelly High School 1965 page without some friends sharing information and some photos with me. The bulk of the photos included in this website, however, was taken from my trusty 1965 Talon. I would not venture to guess on how many occasions that I have viewed that little book in the last 55 years. (No, I refuse to share the Dear Glen’s that many of you wrote in this book when we were 17 or 18 years old!) My Brother All-in-One desktop scanner is now about worn out and my Talon is barely still contained in its binding! I do hope you enjoy my online presentation of these materials.
A Short History of the Name
The official name of our school is Thomas W. Kelly High School. Where did that name come from. The story that I am going to share is the result of my own research and a conversation that I had with a couple of my classmates.
Thomas W. Kelly, Jr. was born in Sikeston, Missouri, in 1921. At an early age, he lost both parents. He was raised by a foster parent named Olivia Osburn of Commerce, Missouri. Thomas later graduated from Commerce Elementary School, Benton High School, and the Missouri School of Mines at Rolla, Missouri. He received a B.S. in Engineering from Rolla.
Prior to reaching his adult years, his uncle, a Scott County Missouri judge named Earl Peters, bequeathed Mr. Kelly $10,000 in government bonds. After the United States entered World War II, Mr. Kelly joined the war effort. Prior to leaving for Europe, he prepared and signed his last will and testament. In that document he requested that the interest earned on those bonds go to a scholarship fund each year for a Benton High School student that planned to attend the Missouri School of Mines (now called the University of Missouri – Rolla.)
Sadly, Captain Thomas Wallace Kelly, Jr. was killed by a bomb in Normandy, France on July 28, 1944. Now that we know who Thomas W. Kelly was, let’s move forward more than a decade and pick up the story of how our school was named.
As I understand it, in the mid-fifties, a group of interested parties were brainstorming about a name for the new high school that was being built on Highway 77 about three miles south of Benton, Missouri, the county seat of Scott County. One of the brainstormers was a man by the name of Ben Adams of Benton. He proposed that the new school be named after a student that had attended classes at Benton High School several years earlier. Mr. Adams shared the story of Mr. Kelly and suggested that he was worthy of this honor? The others in the naming group agreed and the new school now had a name. If anyone has a different naming story or additional details on this version, I would welcome your sharing it with me.
I have a lot of respect for Ben Adams. He was a great guy. I do not know if he was only a teacher or was also part of the Benton High School Administration in 1955 or 56. I also do not know if he ever met Mr. Kelly. When I attended in 1965, he was the principal of Kelly High School and my physics teacher. He was an outstanding teacher.
Thank you Mr. Kelly for your service and giving the ultimate sacrifice. Rest in peace, Thomas W. Kelly.
Meet the '65 Graduates
Class Photo 1965
Caps and Gowns 1965
The 1965 Valedictorian and Salutatorian
Senior Class Officers
Senior Class Personalities
Class Reunions
Throughout the years, the Class of 1965 has had several reunions. I attended the reunions of 1976, 2001, and 2015. I regret that I did not attend more as they are so much fun. As I get older, I do value and cherish the old friendships even more.
Class of 1965 – 50 Year Reunion
My fiftieth class reunion in 2015 was great fun! My wife and I flew over 2000 miles from Port Angeles, Washington to attend. The temperature in Seattle was in the low sixties when we left. It was about 93 degrees in the shade in Benton when we arrived. It was great to see many of my old classmates and some friends from the class of 1966. The parade was wonderful and our get-together at Larry and Linda Shaw Urhahn‘s lovely place was special. A huge shout-out goes to Lowell Bryant and the Urhahns for all their work in planning and hosting this event. We had a good turnout. I was very hoarse at the end of the day and I am a very shy fellow. I had great classmates.
I report with great sadness that, at that reunion, I visited with Johnny Bollinger, Andy Dirnberger, and Forrest Guiling for the last time. Although not a ’65 graduate of KHS, I will add Sue Walls Alderman to the list as she was a classmate in earlier years and attended the 2015 reunion. Rest in peace, my friends!
Row 1: Sue Walls, Judy Brothers, Polly Mack, Mary Kae Dumey, Linda Shaw, Pam Wright, Darlene LeGrand, Linda Welter, Mike McDonald, and Don Gage Row 2: Richard Essner, Ben Groves, Patty Gray, Carolyn Pemberton, Lowell Bryant, Tom Nebel, Sandy Hooper, John Bollinger, Kay Dennis, and Charles Naile Row 3: James Essner, Joe Bucher, Anna Heisserer, Larry Urhahn, Kenny Wells, Andy Dirnberger, Glen Morrow, and Elvis Coram
Class of 65 – All-School Reunion in 2013
10-Year Reunion 1976 (Grads Only)
It should be noted that the Class of 1965 frequently has held their reunions jointly with the Class of 1966! This would explain to all the math whizzes (and others paying attention) out there why our tenth reunion was held in 1976.
From left to right: Row 1: Marvin Steimle, Linda Shaw, Omer Clark, and Pam Wright Row 2: David Brewer, Tom Nebel, and Darlene LeGrand Row 3: Bill James, Andy Dirnberger, and Carolyn Pemberton Row 4: Jack Heckert and Judy Brothers Row 5: Vicki Bridges, Danny Dumey, and Kay Dennis Row 6: Ben Groves Row 7: Ronnie Dodson, Tommy Vetter, and Brenda Enderle Row 8:Johnny Bollinger and Charles Naile Row 9: Richard Essner and Glen Morrow
Extra-curricular Activities at Kelly High School
It is said “all work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy”. Of course, every school district strives for a good academic program; however, no educational program is complete without extracurricular activities. Whether it be student government, the Art Club, FFA, FHA, the marching band, or the sports teams, they all are important to the students and the community. Kelly High offered its students many opportunities to participate in programs or activities of interest and a large number of students took advantage of these opportunities. Learning how to be a good winner or loser, learning how to improve one’s leadership skills, or simply participating in something that one enjoys are all important components of a comprehensive educational program. In that respect, I give Kelly High School high marks for providing many activities and opportunities to its students. The table of contents links to chapters 11, 12, and 13 will take you to pages recognizing some of these activities.
Articles by Glen Relating to Kelly High School
Following are some articles that I have written about my experiences at Kelly High School.
Bertrand Students Invade Kelly High School
Similar to the British invasion of the 60’s U.S.A. pop music scene, the Bertrand student invasion was friendly and non-violent and, from my perspective, worked out well for everyone. In early 1964, a school bond referendum failed and the Bertrand students attending Charleston High School (CHS) had to decide where they wanted to continue their education. (I suppose one can say that we had school choice in 1964! Actually, Bertrand students had the choice to go to Charleston High School, Kelly High School (KHS), or Sikeston High School after the 8th grade. The majority of students chose CHS.)
After the referendum failure, we had to choose whether to be a Sikeston High School bulldog or a Kelly High School hawk. Nine ‘seniors to be’ chose Kelly High and at least four ‘seniors to be’ chose Sikeston High. I think that all were satisfied with the choices that they made. I can vouch that the Kelly attendees that I have spoken with have expressed no regrets.
The Bertrand ‘seniors to be’ that chose to attend Kelly High included Vicki Bridges, Mike Duke, Ben Groves, Jack Heckert, Sandy Hooper, Donald Lynn, Glen Morrow, Charles Naile, and Paul Thomas. (Vicki Bridges and Paul Thomas attended Kelly High all four years.) The four CHS ‘seniors to be’ that chose to transfer from CHS to Sikeston High School included Sonny Alcorn, Glen Killian, Mike McCubbins, and Sandy Smith. (I apologize if I have forgotten someone.)
The Student Body and faculty at Kelly High were very welcoming and hospitable to us and there was no problem with us assimilating into the student body.
Many Bertrand students were involved in activities including clubs, sports and leadership roles at KHS. Following are some examples of those activities.
- Senior Class President – Ben Groves (Mike Adams was Sophomore Class President)
- Student Council Member – Charles Naile
- Art Club – Junior, Joan Groves
- Basketball – Varsity – Paul Thomas and Glen Morrow; “B” Team (Sophomore, Mike Adams); and Freshman Team (Trennis Killian, David Hubbert, Fray Morrow, and Paul Groves)
- Baseball – Donald Lynn, Charles Naile, Mike Duke, and Glen Morrow (Sophomore, Mike Adams and Junior, David Peters)
- Concert Choir – Vicki Bridges
- FFA – Jack Heckert; Juniors, David Peters and Jerry Northern; and Freshmen, Fray Morrow and David Hubbert
- Keppers – almost all students from Bertrand were members
- Track – Ben Groves, Mike Duke, and Sophomore, Mike Adams
- Royalty – Junior, Linda Groves – Class Attendant for FFA Sweetheart
Bertrand students were readily accepted by the Kelly High School student body and many made significant contributions during the year, as evidenced by the chart above.
Our fretting was for naught and all was well!
Some Reflections on 1965
In the last 16 years, I have had a lot of time to reflect on what might or could of have been. What ifs, ands, and buts were made for folks just like me who have a lot of free time on their hands. It is hard for me to believe that I have been retired for more than 15 years (since January 31, 2004). I have lived a fulfilling life of 71 years and have no major complaints. At this stage of my life, the old memories are so precious and reminiscing is one of my favorite pastimes. I have not been back to Kelly High School (KHS) in over 50 years. I am certain that many things have changed, but I suspect that the old school spirit and enthusiasm have not diminished. Although I have attended class reunions in 1976, 2001, and 2015, I still have a longing to visit the old school building and gym itself (Is it still there?).
February of 1964 was a very trying time for me. I had just learned that I would be unable to complete my senior year at Charleston High School (CHS) as it was no longer an option for Bertrand kids (school board referendum issue). Thankfully, that initial fretting was short-lived and for naught! My senior year at Kelly High School exceeded my expectations and could not have been much better. I am going to share a few random tidbits from one of the best years of my life that may be interesting to some of my KHS facebook friends. One will note that I had some very dear friends that went out of their way to take care of me while at Kelly High. Sadly, some of them are no longer with us.
With no CHS basketball game on my schedule that Friday night and having concluded that I was going to attend Kelly High School later that fall, I elected to attend a KHS basketball game in February of 1964 at St. Henry’s High School in Charleston. At that game, I ran into some old acquaintances from my elementary school (years 1-6) at Diehlstadt, including Ronnie Wyatt, Forrest Guiling, Johnny Merrick (all to be future teammates), and others. Immediately, I was greatly impressed by the enthusiasm of the student body and, particularly, the cheerleading squad. Oh! Those cheerleaders! Not only were they a very poised and polished squad, this red-blooded 16 year-old guy noticed that they were all lovely young ladies. Mary, Janie, Elaine, Diana, Jeannie, Pam, and Linda were great (Actually, these girls comprised the 64-65 squad so not all of the aforementioned ladies would have been on the floor that night in February of 1964).
Ronnie Wyatt: I can remember telling my old friend, Ronnie, how cute all the cheerleaders were and that one, in particular, had caught my fancy. He informed me that that young lady may be “available”. I asked him what her name was. He replied with her name and, “let me introduce you to her”. Being the terribly shy fellow that I was at that time, I said “no thanks, no, please don’t, not now”! He responded with something to the effect that he would definitely make sure we were properly introduced when I got to Kelly in the fall. Not making too much of it, I just said “whatever”. To make a long story “short”, on the first day of school Ronnie says to me something like, “have you introduced yourself to that special
cheerleader yet”? Then, he winked. Not knowing for certain what he was alluding to, I shrugged it off with a “huh”? Later that morning, we received our locker assignments. Charlie Naile and I were assigned to share locker number 207. Who was assigned to locker 206? You guessed it. It was none other than ‘that’ cheerleader. That is still a mystery to me. Did Ronnie have that much clout or was it a sheer coincidence? Up to that time, I did not believe in sheer coincidences. Martha (Wyatt) Whitaker, can you shed any light on Ronnie’s connections? As an aside, I think I may have finally had a conversation with that young lady a month or so after that day. (OK, I was, and still am, extremely shy and was very deliberate!) Ronnie Wyatt was a special friend that just wanted to ensure that his old friend was comfortable at his new school and was well aware that his friend needed all the help he could get. R.I.P., Ronnie.
Johnny Merrick: I had known John for many years and a few things that I knew about Johnny Merrick included that he was a very good athlete, very quiet (lol), and a very popular guy! He sure liked to tease me and watch me blush. On my first day at Kelly High, we were in the commons area. In front of God and everyone else in earshot, he blurts out in a loud voice, “Elaine, this is Glen and I think he would like to go out with you!” Wow! I wanted to magically disappear. This shy guy’s face got hot and turned several shades of red. I cannot remember what my response was, if any. I do know that I was extremely embarrassed by this unexpected formal introduction. As I said earlier, John was quiet – I lied!
Johnny thought that his prank, at my expense, was the funniest joke in the whole world. Obviously, I did not share in his delight. I never was able to get even with my good – but after this episode, former friend (lol). Seriously, he was a great, fun-loving and very popular guy who “just wanted to help a very shy friend out”. I must say that Elaine (I will not divulge her last name) was a good sport. John and I experienced many victories on numerous baseball and basketball teams from 1960-1967. R.I.P., Johnny! You were one of the ”good” guys!
Tom “Passer” Nebel: In late summer of 1964, my late friend, Forrest Guiling, invited me to “open gym” at the high school. We divided into teams of shirts and skins. After a while, I concluded that one of the guys on my team either did not like me or was just testing my mettle. Who is this guy? Twice during our competition, he bloodied my nose with no-look bullet passes.
As I had previously never played with one who had such great peripheral vision, his hard precision passes caught me by surprise. As I later learned, Tom Nebel was a gifted passer and I would need to stay alert and develop better hands if I were going to play with him. Over the course of the 64 – 65 basketball season, he and I developed great rapport on the court. I was now able to anticipate and catch his hard, no-look passes. We also bonded and became very good friends. Ever since I told my wife about this episode, she has called Tommy – “passer”. I recall at our 50th reunion her asking me if that was “passer” that I had just introduced to her.
Academics: I generally took academics very seriously (even more seriously in college after returning home from Vietnam.) At Kelly High, I realized that I needed to take a couple of electives to graduate. Thus, I chose art and drafting (anything to avoid taking speech). I knew that I would not do well in either of these courses. My other three courses were physics, trigonometry, and government. Well, I made A’s in Ben Adams’ physics class, Paul Guard’s trigonometry class, and Wallace Alden’s government class. Unfortunately, I made the only two C’s of my 4-year high school career in art and drafting. I am certain that Mrs. Wendt snickered under her breath every time that I turned in an art project as my artwork was of first grade or possibly second grade quality. To her credit, she never actually laughed out loud! Drafting, on the other hand, was just something that I just could not master or like. Whatever it was, I simply had a mental block. Although Mr. Ohr was a very nice guy and a good teacher, the light never came on! I don’t think that I would have ever got through his class without the assistance of Mike Duke, Charlie Naile, and Ben Groves.
Wallace Alden: I have never connected with a teacher like I did with Mr. Alden. Not only was he my government teacher, he was our third hour study hall monitor. Mike Duke, Charlie Naile, and I really gave him a hard
time. And he loved it. We ribbed him continually about his Boston accent. We also exhibited other immature behaviors just to irritate him. (I guess I am admitting that I was not always an angel!) He actually tried to recruit me for basketball and baseball to his alma mater at Arkansas Southern in Magnolia, Arkansas. I really liked and respected that man. I was so troubled to hear about his unfortunate death.
The 1964-65 Basketball Team: Ten guys bought-in to Coach Bob Barker’s basketball system. Of course, being the new guy on the block, I was very nervous at the start of practice in October of ‘64. After a few practices, I knew I that I would fit in and could make a contribution. We melded together as a team and became quite successful – ranking in the top 10 teams in the area. We were the Conference champions and won 19 or 20 games. That team consisted of Tom Nebel, Tommy Simmons, John Merrick, Ronnie Wyatt, Ronnie Dodson, Omer Clark, Lowell Bryant, Forrest Guiling, Paul Thomas, and me. It is sad that Coach Bob Barker, Tommy Simmons, John Merrick. Ronnie Wyatt, and Forrest Guiling are all now deceased. R.I.P, guys!
The 1964-65 Cheerleading Squad: I would put those seven ladies against any squad at any level that I have watched over the years. I know that I am biased, but they were great. They also had the best pep squad to work with. Kelly High School games were loud and boisterous and the gym was always full and rocking. Mary Nebel, Janie Caldwell, Elaine Graff, Diana Boston, Jeannie Lynn, Pam Lambert, and Linda Collier were great (Ladies, I apologize for using your maiden names)! R.I.P, Mary and Jeannie!
The Overall Student Body: I could not have received any better acceptance or more support than what I got with the student body of Kelly High. I made many friends and hopefully no enemies while there. The sports programs, the administration, the teachers, and the facilities were all top notch. The homecoming, prom, and senior party are all memories that I will always cherish. It was a very memorable senior year.
Remembering Ronnie and Johnny
I am writing this article in remembrance of two of my best friends and teammates at Kelly High School that have gone home to meet their maker. I met both Ronnie Wyatt and Johnny Merrick at Diehlstadt Grade School in the middle 50’s. The three of us attended there together through my 6th grade year. They both were great guys. I was excited to rejoin them at Kelly High for my senior year (1964-65). I was so sad to learn of their passing. I now offer a prayer for the love ones that they have left on this earth. (I have personally known Martha (Ronnie’s sister) and Janie (Johnny’s wife) for more than 50 years). We understand the sadness their families must feel. Dear God, fill that emptiness in their loved ones as only you can. Ronnie and Johnny, we miss you and will never forget you. I thank you Lord for allowing me to know both of these fun-loving guys. Rest in Peace. Amen.
Fifty years ago this month, ten guys at Kelly High School began endurance training which included running line drills, jumping rope, and running the bleachers. The varsity basketball squad was comprised of nine seniors and one junior. Tom Nebel, Forrest Guiling, Paul Thomas, Ronnie Wyatt, Omer Clark, Lowell Bryant, Tommy Simmons, Ronnie Dodson, and Glen Morrow were the seniors while Johnny Merrick was the lone junior. As one would expect, there was a lot of exerted energy and dripping perspiration. Any former player will tell you that getting into basketball shape is a difficult task. No one knew what to expect from this group of ten guys! Would this team be competitive? Would this team win 1/2 of its games? I am not certain if Coach Bob Barker knew what to expect. He had some experienced players from the 1963-64 varsity returning but had little height and had lost his top scorer and rebounder. Could Coach Barker meld this group of ten guys into a winning team? Only time would tell as that first game with Leopold High School was rapidly approaching in early November.
Fortunately, all ten of us quickly bought into the team concept where each team member knew and played within the scope of the role that Coach defined for us. Early on, we realized that speed was not one of our greater collective team assets. With the slow-down style and scheme prescribed by Coach Barker, no single player was going to average 25 points a game nor was the team going to score 75-80 points a game. We featured the shuffle offense which we ran very well. Our opponent and the situation dictated the style of defense that we deployed. On some occasions, we successfully used an innovative combination defense such as a box and one, or a triangle and two, or a match-up zone. We had the reputation of being well-coached and playing smart. We were consistently ranked in the top ten of area teams throughout that year.
Our 1964-65 team, after some early spitting and sputtering, matured nicely and greatly exceeded most expectations as we won 19 games and the Scott-Mississippi Conference championship. Coach Barker did a great job coaching this team. We were a group of unselfish athletes who worked hard. We listened, learned, and adapted. We were a team. I am so proud to be a part of that team and I salute these ten athletes for their efforts. (As an aside, Ronnie Wyatt missed a significant portion of the schedule with an early-season shoulder injury. The team really missed his contributions during his absence.)
Author’s note: At the time that I wrote this article, I only was aware of Ronnie and Johnny’s deaths. I regret that I have to add Coach Bob Barker, Tommy Simmons, and Forrest Guiling to the list of deceased teammates. All were good guys in addition to being good athletes. They are gone but not forgotten!
Below I honor these five men with this photo gallery. Rest in Peace.
Following are links to the five separate pages associated with this main page. If you overlooked them in the table of contents, click on each of the page’s respective link below.
- Individual Senior Photos
- The ’66-’70 Grads & and the ’65 Faculty
- The Music Programs
- Sports Programs
- The Organizations, Clubs, and Royalty
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